I’ve been asking myself that question since 2013! I didn’t come to that question casually, as I came to it after being told flatly and confidently that I was passive‑aggressive. That was not as a hypothesis or not as feedback with examples. It was like a label or a verdict from a councilor that I […]
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Project Estimation: Turning Uncertainty into a Shared Understanding
Project estimation is one of the few activities that every delivery framework like Hybrid, Agile, Scrum, Waterfall, or ad-hoc agrees on. This is even if the platform and participants disagree on how, why, and when to do it. Whether one subscribes to predictive planning, adaptive delivery, or somewhere in between, estimations are the mechanism Project […]
Spotting The Most Common Red Flags on Dating Sites
Online dating has opened the door to meeting people we might never have crossed paths with otherwise. Unfortunately, it has also opened the door to scammers, bots, and AI who take advantage of trust, loneliness, and hope of others. Romance scams are now one of the most reported forms of online fraud, and they often […]
Making a Better Dating Service App & Site (Part 1)
Build It Through Honesty, Attention to Detail, and Time Constraints Dating apps didn’t become ineffective or broken overnight. They slowly evolved away from their original missions because of engagement metrics, abandoned accounts, lack of attention to detail by users, lies on profiles, and fake accounts have taken precedent over the creation of real outcomes for […]
Why is This Okay and That is Not?
Somewhere along the way, we stopped asking why and started accepting unwritten rules that are constantly shifting and seem to change depending on who is watching, who is judging others, who is tweeting, who is offended, or who is contributing at that exact moment. It feels as though to me that it is easier to […]